Tuesday, December 24, 2013
The
craving in the mind stops the mind from settling down. You work because
you have a desire, but if you are feverish about it you stop your mind
from settling down! Inner silence is the mother of all talents. When you
are silent and settled from inside, automatically your abilities and
talents improve ~ Sri Sri
You know, elderly people just need your company. When you are with them, just sing, play or crack jokes and bring them food or have it with them.
Talk something which is of interest to them. They are not interested in
listening to wisdom from you, or learning any new techniques from you.
Don't behave like a teacher with your elderly parents. Casually, you may
give a few words of wisdom. Observe if they are absorbing it.
Otherwise, just being with them is good enough
Don’t
need to get stuck in material belief only. Material laws are there,
physical laws are there, but there is something higher than the physical
laws. There is something higher than the obviously seen physical
creation of names and forms. The understanding of consciousness; mind
over matter, and consciousness over physical reality; this is what we
need to attend to.
We
should never be shy of humiliation, or of being criticized. If
criticism comes, take it. Do you know, many times we hold our hands so
tight; this is what I am, this is mine, mine, mine! And the moment
someone criticizes us, we withdraw. We are so paranoid about the
criticism of others. These are the weakest people, I tell you
From
a wise persons’ angle, see that anyone who criticizes you is doing
something good to you. They are showing you your mistake, taking the
risk of losing their friendship with you. Otherwise, the common man
would just say, ‘Okay, why should we lose the friendship of such and
such a person? Just say good things, and bye. There is no need to point
out your weaknesses.
Whenever
someone criticizes you, listen to it. If the criticism has some
substance, take it. If it is coming out of jealously, be compassionate
towards them. That is their problem; they are working out their own
jealously. They are pouring out their frustration on you. And in some
sense, you are just helping them to empty their mind of frustration.
Go
to the source of happiness, from where joy comes. When you go to the
source of happiness, the senses are strengthened, contentment comes to
the mind, and things become available the way you want them. All three
happen when the senses are turned inwards, and that inward turning of
senses is called dispassion.
When
you have this feeling in your heart that you have always received more
than what you asked for, or more than what you deserved, then deep
gratitude arises in you. When there is gratitude, there will never be a
lack of anything in life. For such a person, whatever he wishes for will
keep getting fulfilled
Accept
that you don’t know what you are, or who you are. You don’t know how
much energy you have; you don’t know what you can do, and that’s it! You
will see a new wave of energy gush through you, and your whole
attitude, your behaviour, your perception and your expression, all will
change. You must simply remove all the labels that you have, voluntarily
or involuntarily, put on yourself. Got it?
I
feel love should be expressed, but should be hidden at the same time.
When you don’t verbalize love too much it shows in your actions. Just
like a seed. If you sow a seed too deep in the soil, it can’t sprout.
Neither will it sprout if you keep it on the surface. You need to sow it
a little beneath the soil so that it can sprout and become a plant. We
need to express love but keep it a little inward, so that it oozes out
in our actions
There
is something much higher than these events, these happenings, and this
life. There is something much more mystical. Something which is so much
more real than the so-called real world. Accepting that gives life a
bigger dimension. It lifts your eyes from the normal day-to-day routine
worldly living, to a truth that is higher
This
world is layers of layers of layers of reality; of truth. So, when you
leave this body, your spirit goes and stays in another realm for quite
some time, till it gets another body to come back. This life, our human
life, is very precious because from this life you can merge with the
Light. In this life, you can express love. The human body is very, very
precious.
Do
you know what happens when you meditate? You are creating a rapport
with the other realms of reality. When your mind is still, when
meditation is happening, you are not only purifying every cell of your
own body, but you are spreading positive energy all around you. Your
meditation brings peace and joy to people who have already passed and
gone to the other side, which is very, very important
When
you wish happiness for others, happiness will come to you. This is the
law of nature. When you wish good for others, good things come back to
you. When you wish bad for others, only bad things come to you. No one
wants bad things to happen to them, right? This is the reason you should
keep your heart pure and clear
You
never doubt your anger, your depression, your sadness, your sorrow,
your misery; but you doubt all the positive qualities that you have. You
doubt in your capabilities - you don't doubt your incapabilities. Doubt
the incapability in yourself, doubt your limitations, then the faith in
your capabilities grows
Whenever
you want to escape from a situation, and you are finding a way to get
out of it, then the mind is still outward, because the mind is engaged
in doing. So when the mind has to go into deep rest, for that you have
to accept that there is no way. Then you drop that wanting to do
something, and then the mind settles down then and there.
If
you really wake up and see, one who is doing seva (service) and good
things is loved by everyone. If you feel you are not loved by people,
it’s not true! It’s our own illusion. Sometimes we are hard on others
and sometimes we are too hard on ourselves. If you are too hard on
yourself it is a problem, and if you are hard on others, then also it’s a
problem. So wake up, rest and meditate. Once your mind feels fresh,
your vision becomes clear
If
you find you have some sins, give it to me, I will take care of it.
Don’t worry about it. You give me your past and I will take
responsibility of your past. You have nothing to do about it. You are
relieved of your past. Forget about it. Move on to the future. The
future is on a platter for you, fresh; so drop your past coat here
Friday, December 13, 2013
Thursday, December 12, 2013
You know, elderly people just need your company. When you are with them, just sing, play or crack jokes and bring them food or have it with them.
Talk something which is of interest to them. They are not interested in
listening to wisdom from you, or learning any new techniques from you.
Don't behave like a teacher with your elderly parents. Casually, you may
give a few words of wisdom. Observe if they are absorbing it.
Otherwise, just being with them is good enough - Guruji
You worry about things that are happening, `Oh! Why is this
happening? Why is this person like that?' You should stop this. You
should turn and see what you are doing because you have control on what
you can do or what you are doing. You have no control on what is
happening, by others or in the situation. You know, if you stop trying
to control what is happening and have a say on what you are doing then
you become much stronger, effective, powerful, successful and happier.
That is it. -Sri Sri
happening? Why is this person like that?' You should stop this. You
should turn and see what you are doing because you have control on what
you can do or what you are doing. You have no control on what is
happening, by others or in the situation. You know, if you stop trying
to control what is happening and have a say on what you are doing then
you become much stronger, effective, powerful, successful and happier.
That is it. -Sri Sri
See -- a flower blooms; what is the purpose of beauty? What is the
purpose of joy? There is no purpose to joy; it is the end in itself.
You may say it's strange. Life when lived in its totality is the end in
itself and beginning in itself. Love, joy, beauty -- all that is
precious and valuable in life is really beyond value, beyond meaning,
beyond purpose. - Sri Sri
purpose of joy? There is no purpose to joy; it is the end in itself.
You may say it's strange. Life when lived in its totality is the end in
itself and beginning in itself. Love, joy, beauty -- all that is
precious and valuable in life is really beyond value, beyond meaning,
beyond purpose. - Sri Sri
See suppose you do some help to somebody, and they don't thank you, what
happens to you? You feel sad? Unhappy? If they don't say thank you,
does not matter, at least you do not lose your happiness. This is
exactly what it is expectations reduce joy. Anything that comes to you,
as a surprise gives you joy. Isn't that so? - Sri Sri
You don't know your mind; your own mind drives you crazy. One minute it
wants something and the next minute it wants something else. The mind
keeps changing its mind all the time, and it gets caught up. That is why
in the Bhagavad Gita, there is a saying, 'Your own mind is responsible
for your bondage and for your liberation,' there is nothing else. - Sri Sri
It is all in your own eyes, how you view the world. If you think that
everyone is a fraud then your behavior towards everybody will be rude
and unpleasant, and you will be part of that. This is why there is a
saying - As is your vision so is the creation. As you envisage, so the
creation becomes - Yatha Drishti Tatha Shrishti - Gurudev
everyone is a fraud then your behavior towards everybody will be rude
and unpleasant, and you will be part of that. This is why there is a
saying - As is your vision so is the creation. As you envisage, so the
creation becomes - Yatha Drishti Tatha Shrishti - Gurudev
The first step to gain confidence is to know that you don't know
yourself. When you think that you know yourself, only then do you attach
yourself with all these negative events and qualities. But when you
wake up and see that, `Hey, I don't know myself', then it is a new
beginning. Then you will discover that there are so many strengths
within you that you were not aware of - Sri Sri
Don't judge others. You never know. Do you know yourself? Do you know
when you are compassionate, or when you are harsh? You don't know!
Sometimes you are harsh with people, and you justify your being harsh.
You say, 'They deserved it.' Don't you think so? And sometimes when you
are compassionate then also you justify your compassion, isn't it? So
you don't know your own emotions and your own behavior, then why would
you judge someone else, and why would you judge everybody? - Sri Sri
Meditation is a better form of prayer. In prayer you are asking for
something. Meditation is saying, `I am ready to listen'. Just imagine if
somebody only keeps on asking and is not ready to listen to you. Don't
you get frustrated? In the same way, God also gets frustrated but when
you sit for meditation, and ready to listen to him, He bestows all the
favors to you - Sri Sri
The past should be viewed as destiny. If you think you had a choice in
the past, the present will be spoiled because you regret the past.
Continued regret about the past creates a lot of toxins in the body, the
future is not bright. See the past as destiny, the future as free will,
and live in the present moment. - Sri Sri
The past should be viewed as destiny. If you think you had a choice in
the past, the present will be spoiled because you regret the past.
Continued regret about the past creates a lot of toxins in the body, the
future is not bright. See the past as destiny, the future as free will,
and live in the present moment. - Sri Sri
We think we are very good people and when difficulties arise we assume
that the Divine is testing us. We don't get into trouble because of our
goodness: it is because of our foolishness. Some things are your karma.
Some difficulties teach you lessons. Look back and see all those
problems you have come out of. You will see that you have become
stronger. This is what you should recognize. - Sri Sri
Silence can bring skill in communication. Every person who gets angry
has some justification for their anger. They think that they are
correct. Do you see what I am saying? Behind anger is the demand for
justice, and intolerance for injustice. So anger is good, it is
essential, but only to wake you up. After that, the anger needs to be
given a direction of creativity otherwise the same anger can burn you -
Sri Sri
has some justification for their anger. They think that they are
correct. Do you see what I am saying? Behind anger is the demand for
justice, and intolerance for injustice. So anger is good, it is
essential, but only to wake you up. After that, the anger needs to be
given a direction of creativity otherwise the same anger can burn you -
Sri Sri
Don't judge and don't worry about what others think of you.
Whatever they think, it is not permanent. Your own opinion about things
and people keeps changing all the time. So why worry about what others
think about you? Worrying takes a toll on the body, mind, intellect and
alertness. This can be handled by relaxing and doing some breathing
exercises. Then you will realise that you are loved, you are a part of
everybody and you are a part of the whole universe. This will liberate
you and the mind will take a complete shift. You will then find so much
harmony around. - Sri Sri
Whatever they think, it is not permanent. Your own opinion about things
and people keeps changing all the time. So why worry about what others
think about you? Worrying takes a toll on the body, mind, intellect and
alertness. This can be handled by relaxing and doing some breathing
exercises. Then you will realise that you are loved, you are a part of
everybody and you are a part of the whole universe. This will liberate
you and the mind will take a complete shift. You will then find so much
harmony around. - Sri Sri
We should never be shy of humiliation, or of being criticized. If
criticism comes, take it. Do you know, many times we hold our hands so
tight; this is what I am, this is mine, mine, mine! And the moment someone
criticizes us, we withdraw. We are so paranoid about the criticism of
others. These are the weakest people, I tell you. - Sri Sri
criticism comes, take it. Do you know, many times we hold our hands so
tight; this is what I am, this is mine, mine, mine! And the moment someone
criticizes us, we withdraw. We are so paranoid about the criticism of
others. These are the weakest people, I tell you. - Sri Sri
We
should keep aside at least three per cent of whatever we earn, and use
it for the society. Then the money that we earn will become purified. If
we use whatever we earn for our self only, then that is not the best
utilization of money. So, we must use a little portion of our earnings
for the society
The
mind is the biggest mystery. Your own mind can be your best friend or
your worst enemy. The mind is responsible for our happiness as well as
misery. When the mind is in the present moment, everything appears to be
beautiful. However, when the mind is a mess; even in the best of
places, it can find a thousand reasons to be miserable
In
the Bhagavad-Gita, it is said that there are three doors to hell. The
first door is anger. How to control anger? Postpone expressing it. The
second door to hell is greed. The third door is being obsessive; lust.
The mind is obsessed with lust and doesn’t care for others; that creates
huge problems.
Change
the whole attitude from, ‘What I can take from the world; how much
pleasure I can get’, to, ‘How much more can I contribute to the world;
how much I can be of use to the world.’ Do you see the difference? It is
from being self-centered to selflessness. So, when we take the second
stance, our own worries will simply disappear and abundance will flow.
"We
all need to learn how to calm our minds when we are agitated.
Now you might say, ‘Yes, I know this in my head, but how to bring it
practically into my day to day life. I know it is bad to get upset,
annoyed or depressed. How should I not do it?’ This is where meditation
and breathing techniques come in handy. They are the tools that help you
calm your mind, and you feel happy from within. When you are happy, you
can only do what is good for everybody."
Doubt
means that your Prana (subtle life force or energy) has not blossomed
fully; it has not reached its peak. The Prana has gotten stuck somewhere
in the body. When you are full of Prana, all doubts automatically
disappear. That is why when you are very happy, there are no doubts in
your mind. When you are deeply in love, no doubts arise in you
Doubt
means that you partially believe something, and you partially
disbelieve it also. If you disbelieve something completely, then there
is no doubt, and if you believe something completely, then too you will
not have any doubt at all. So a doubt arises when you both believe and
disbelieve something.
Your
concept in the mind that things should be a certain way causes pain in
the mind. The cause of distress is set concepts in the mind. The art of
living is to gain this simple ability in life - just a skill: the
ability to free your mind of the past, to free your mind of future
fears, and to be able to play with every situation that is in front of
you.
Faith
is like a mountain and doubts are like clouds. Can any cloud anytime
shake a mountain? It is impossible. It sometimes covers the mountain,
and you can’t see the mountain. That’s all. But a mountain can never be
knocked out by passing clouds. They just obscure them for a little
while. Don’t worry!
Be
happy and spread happiness. I want you to go deep in knowledge, and be
one of those who are a giver to the world; one who radiates happiness,
knowledge and wisdom. This is what I want you to do. Among the billions
of people on the planet, even if a few radiate wisdom, love and
happiness, you can heal this planet. It is a much needed healing. You
are very precious to this planet, at this time. Get into the seva team,
and so some service
Sometimes
in Navratri we fast, and in the name of fasting, we feast.
People say, ‘We will not eat any grains, we will only have potato’, and
we eat French fries and everything else.
‘We will not have rice, but we will only have idly.’
This is cheating I tell you. Real fasting does not include eating halwas
(sweet dish) and puris (fried pancakes). It is a wrong type of fasting.
You should not fast like that
Love
and pain go hand in hand. Because you love someone, even a small action
can hurt you. And in hurt, you feel very delicate, very deep. Love and
separation create the same symptoms. If you don’t love somebody, you
will never feel hurt by them. Understand and accept this. Then hurt will
not turn into a sore feeling. Rather, that very hurt will take you deep
into dispassion and meditation
You
like someone to be very honest, open, natural, unassuming with you.
That is exactly what others also want from you. If you are a boss, what
type of assistants or subordinates would you like? Someone who is open.
And that is also what your boss wants. Don’t try hard to impress your
boss, or impress your girlfriend or boyfriend. That is when everything
goes wrong. The best is to be yourself, natural, to be forgiving and to
be in the present moment. It makes a big difference
Don’t
be feverish about a relationship, just relax and you will find your
relationship with people will improve and become better. If you are like
a leech, clinging on to somebody and bugging them, even though you say
all nice words, that person will run away from you because they can’t
handle it. One aspect is to give love, and another is to know how to
handle love, receive love as well
When
we care for the planet, when we care for people around us, when we
stretch our hands and become available to all those who are in need,
then depression disappears from life. Such education or awareness is
seen as an urgent need today because depression, according to the World
Health Organization, is going to be the biggest killer in the coming
decade.
Attachment
means having a limited vision. A mother gets so attached to her child
that her vision for the child becomes very limited. This is the
difference between love and attachment. Attachment only gives pain. It
promises happiness but in reality does not give any happiness. Having a
desire for happiness but experiencing misery is what attachment is.
Many
thoughts come and go in the mind. You would be surprised at the kind of
thoughts that come to your mind. You become so nervous due to some
thoughts of your mind. But you should know that thoughts come and go. So
it does not carry any meaning. We are far greater than our thoughts. So
just know this and relax
Those
who have faith in God, Guru and the Self do not fear anything at all.
They are able to sleep peacefully. They will engage themselves
completely in whatever they do (without any doubt). This is because they
have faith (in their abilities) and they know that they have the
support of the Divine in everything that they do.
Wednesday, December 11, 2013
Doubt means that your Prana has not blossomed fully; it has not reached its peak. The Prana has gotten stuck somewhere in the body. When you are full of Prana, all doubts automatically disappear. That is why when you are very happy, there are no doubts in your mind. When you are deeply in love, no doubts arise in you. Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
Monday, December 9, 2013
Stability
in the mind, sharpness in the intellect, and softness in the heart,
these three things are important in life. The heart should be soft, the
intellect should be sharp and the mind should be pleasant. Never lose
these three things. Even if it seems to be lost, just think that it is
just hidden somewhere and it has not actually gone away. Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
Just think that those who hurt you are either foolish or ill. If you think like this, then you will not feel hurt. Okay? If you think that everyone should act wisely, how is it possible? Everyone has their own little mind, own desires, problems and ignorance. Just accept them. No one can hurt us until we permit them to do so. Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
Just think that those who hurt you are either foolish or ill. If you think like this, then you will not feel hurt. Okay? If you think that everyone should act wisely, how is it possible? Everyone has their own little mind, own desires, problems and ignorance. Just accept them. No one can hurt us until we permit them to do so. Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
Sunday, December 8, 2013
Love
is at its peak when no effort is made, whatsoever, to express it at
all. When you don’t try to express it in so many words, then your whole
being speaks that love. I am not saying you should not express it -
sometimes; otherwise you may burst! I’m just telling you there is a
beauty in not making effort to express it. Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
Being
grateful means all your complaints in life simply disappear. When you
have this feeling in your heart that you have always received more than
what you asked for, or more than what you deserved, then deep gratitude
arises in you. When there is gratitude, there will never be a lack of
anything in life. For such a person, whatever he wishes for will keep
getting fulfilled. Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
Don’t
be feverish about a relationship, just relax and you will find your
relationship with people will improve and become better. If you are like
a leech, clinging on to somebody and bugging them, even though you say
all nice words, that person will run away from you because they can’t
handle it. One aspect is to give love, and another is to know how to
handle love, receive love as well. Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
If
he can do it, why not me?', this thought separates you from people and
causes commotion; complications arise, jealousy arises. You start to
show off and lose your naturalness. Drop all complications, don't show
off. Fulfilment is so beautiful. The one who is satisfied even before
their desires are fulfilled, knowing that all their needs are taken care
of, peace and joy will be given to that person. Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
I
am telling you that whatever has happened, just drop it and move ahead.
Do not sit and regret about what has happened – neither about what you
have done, nor about what others did. If you keep thinking about what
you did, then you feel regret, and if you think about what others did
wrong, then you get angry and worried. Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
Whatever
has happened in the past, just shrug it off and move ahead. When you
dust away all the dirt (of the past) that has accumulated inside you,
then you will simply start shining. You become much stronger, your
consciousness blossoms, and happiness starts to flow. Then you can say
that you are alive. This is what life really is. Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
We
want to see everything perfect in others but we forget to look at
ourselves. We do not reflect on ourselves. Reflect on yourself but then
don’t get too entangled into the analysis. Do not overdo it. You have
some good qualities and some not so good qualities, it is okay. Just
keep moving ahead. Some things are fine, some are not, and it does not
matter. You should simply keep moving forward. Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
To
me, success is the smile that doesn’t die out. It is the confidence
that doesn’t wither away. It is the confidence that one can maintain in
any situation in life, even when situations are tough; this indicates
success. You need four things for success - shakti, yukti, bhakti, and
mukti i.e.energy, skill, devotion or dedication, and a sense of freedom
from within you. Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
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