You worry about things that are happening, `Oh! Why is this
happening? Why is this person like that?' You should stop this. You
should turn and see what you are doing because you have control on what
you can do or what you are doing. You have no control on what is
happening, by others or in the situation. You know, if you stop trying
to control what is happening and have a say on what you are doing then
you become much stronger, effective, powerful, successful and happier.
That is it. -Sri Sri